https://www.patreon.com/posts/defining-covert-96931589 Have you been convinced that everything about you was "wrong?" Does someone in your life make you feel "off," in a way that's anxious, fearful, defeated, and self-doubting? Ever see that the person "helping" actually seemed to make the...

https://www.patreon.com/posts/narcissistic-of-96930939 Who has bad taste in romantic partners? I do! No matter how many times I think I’m choosing wisely… uh… I’m not. Plain and simple, I don’t know how to choose a good human for my significant other. Am I a...

https://www.patreon.com/posts/narcissists-96929442 It was 2016, I was 26 years old. I had just gone through a major life-shittery period that stretched from 23 to the present year (and would get much worse from there). In this period, I had a mental...

A combo of my notes and research from the web, ala figuring shit out a few years ago. Patterns: Generally, some demonstration that I’m not a bad person - I’m not doing anything or I’m being directly helpful/cooperative. Leads...

Bittles from my internet research, found in my personal docs. Vulnerable narcissists traits Introverted and high in neuroticism Not forgiving Constant negativity, broadly No compromise/healing Feeling hated at all times Non-productive arguments, nothing can be said to help, arguing to cause pain, ability to argue...