I’ll reply!

My therapist told me, about my relationship, “This is mutually abusive.”

I think I had SUB-C ticklings before that. But I didn’t feel I could be abusive “if I didn’t mean to.”

When I got out of the relationship and started having autonomy I realized how abusive my codependent relationship had been on my part. Down the road,…Read More

How did the realization come to you?
Did you have suspicions beforehand?
What was the final “aha” moment?
How did you respond to the new self-awareness?

Let’s see what’s up with this posty thing!